Photo by Taras Chernus The challenges of being blind are both different and the same as what we who have the ability to see face. At times, the daily struggles that people with vision impairments encounter are both specific to their condition and at times, the same as the general population. Is this as complicated as it appears?   Anthony R. Candela, author of Vision Dreams A Parable , is blind. He knows the struggles blind people experience every day. This is why he talks about inclusivity for people with disabilities , which is much-needed help. That said, let's go ahead and take a look at the challenges that they go through every day.   1. Blind People Struggles With the Availability of Information   Most people’s primary sense mode is vision. After a brief scan of the area a document or face, for example, we realize that almost all of the data in the world seems to be visual. We are surrounded by graphical information all the time. Examples of this are timetables posted at train stations, cautionary or directional signs, and billboards promoting recently launched goods.   Lack of alternatives to visual information can make blind and visually impaired people significantly less autonomous since obtaining information is a major component of independence. However, the majority of this information can be  made available to them. Friends, family, and even strangers who come to the aid of the visually impaired can provide needed information. However, there is a danger that they will become invasive if they overdo it. This is an occasional concern for blind people. When people help others, they believe that they are doing good. After all, who could fault helping somebody who is blind or has low vision?   Given the appropriate accommodations, people who are blind can do almost any task, even though sometimes it might take longer.   The most intrusive instance is helping someone who is visually impaired without asking them to or without their permission. This might make them feel more dependent than capable. Furthermore and in the extreme, if a blind person is never allowed to perform tasks on their own, they will never acquire the skills they need when no one is around to help them. Photo by CDC 2. Discrimination Against Blindness and Disability in Modern Society   Anthony R. Candela, author of Vision Dreams A Parable, wants us to understand what it means to exist in a community that values the humanity of all of its members. One of the challenges of being blind is the risk of accidents in a world intended for the sighted. Occasionally, small accidents, such as knocking over a drink that was put too near the edge of the table, or bumping into a chair left out from under a desk, are common and embarrassing when they happen. While the challenges blind people face are greater than those of the sighted, when these events arise from environmental inaccessibility, sighted people sometimes blame the visually impaired when they should look to the “built environment” for the cause. They place a stigma on the visually impaired person for not being able to perform certain tasks.    Whether a person is blind or has low vision has no bearing on their intelligence, but it might have impact on their happiness. It's difficult for those who can see to imagine a world lacking sight, yet being blind or visually impaired does not have to mean that a person is miserable. It all depends on the support of people around them, the user-friendliness of the environments they frequent, and, yes, the psychological work we all must do to maintain a positive outlook.   3. Recreational Activities and Opportunities   People who are blind or have low vision often lack full access to fun-filled activities available to the general public. There's always time for games and enjoyment. One of the few easy, accessible, and inclusive activities available to the blind is visiting museums, easy and accessible if there are helpful people or recorded materials to guide the person around the museum and to describe the exhibits. There is also a plethora of easily accessible books. According to the World Blind Union, about 90% of the material published is inaccessible to blind or visually impaired individuals However, recorded books for the blind have been available for decades. Today, blind people can use scanning devices to spontaneously read printed material; people with low vision can use portable or wearable magnification devices. Although sometimes slow, it is far better than nothing.   We all use the Internet for leisure, research, and social interaction. However, numerous sites are not easily usable by people who are visually impaired. Sometimes content is created that is not “visible” by speech software installed in computers or so visually complicated or cluttered, it defeats even the best magnification systems. In the modern era, it is inexcusable for web designers to create such inaccessible or user-unfriendly content.   While the difficulties that visually impaired people confront when trying to unwind and enjoy themselves are too numerous to mention, we hope the concepts discussed in this article will be a guide to treating blind people with respect  by making recreational opportunities more available to them. Photo by Lyman Hansel Gerona We Can Help Alleviate the Challenges of Being Blind   Everyone has challenges in their lives. People who are blind face additional ones. This does not, however, mean that you should pity them. Compassion for those who are blind can take the form of helping when needed, providing accommodations to make environments more accessible, and being thoughtful at all times. Doesn’t everyone need these things? Remember, even though this may not seem obvious to the sighted, blind people deal with life's challenges and lead normal lives, just like everyone else. Click here to get a copy of Vision Dreams: A Parable and Stand Up or Sit Out by Anthony R. Candela to enjoy wonderful books!

Photo by lalesh aldarwish "True greatness lies not in conquering lands or amassing wealth, but in achieving humanity - embracing empathy, compassion, and understanding toward all beings. In pursuing humanity, we elevate ourselves and inspire others to join us on the noble path of kindness and unity."   In a world often overshadowed by discord and division, achieving humanity begins with a profound commitment to   kindness, empathy, and compassion . Through these fundamental virtues, we uplift ourselves and connect deeply with others, creating a tapestry of understanding and care that transcends boundaries. Join us on a transformative exploration as we delve into the essential steps that lead us towards a more compassionate existence, embracing the essence of what it truly means to be human.   Cultivating Kindness in Everyday Interactions Kindness is fundamental to achieving humanity . It is a virtue that has the potential to transform lives and uplift spirits. It involves acts of generosity, empathy, and compassion towards others, regardless of their background. Kindness is an expression of our innate goodness and our willingness to improve the world.   To embrace kindness, we must start by cultivating compassion and understanding towards others. Small acts of kindness, like holding doors, listening, or smiling at strangers, can profoundly impact both the receiver and the giver. Practicing kindness in our interactions creates a domino effect of positivity and goodwill that spreads throughout our communities. Practicing Empathy and Understanding Empathy is our capacity to comprehend and relate to another person's feelings, putting ourselves in their shoes and seeing the world from their perspective. It is a crucial skill that helps us build meaningful relationships, resolve conflicts, and foster mutual respect and understanding. We must develop our capacity for active listening and open-mindedness to cultivate empathy. By actively listening to others and empathizing with their experiences and emotions, we can create a stronger bond and close the distance between us. Empathy allows us to set aside our biases and judgments and approach others with an open heart and mind, recognizing the common humanity that unites us all.     Showing Compassion in Times of Need Image by  Gerd Altmann  from  Pixabay Compassion drives spirits of kindness and empathy, guiding us to respond to suffering with love, care, and understanding. It involves feeling empathy towards others and taking action to alleviate their pain and help them find solace and healing. We must cultivate empathy and connectedness with all living beings to embrace compassion. Compassion requires us to extend our kindness and understanding to those different from us, recognizing their inherent worth and dignity. Through practicing forgiveness and releasing feelings of resentment and anger, we can heal our wounds and play a part in the healing of others. Promoting Equality and Justice Achieving humanity also involves promoting equality and justice for all individuals. It is essential to stand up against discrimination, prejudice, and injustice in all its forms and advocate for a more inclusive and equitable society. By advancing equality and justice, we foster a world where everyone is valued and respected, irrespective of their origins or situations.   Embracing Diversity and Celebrating Differences Photo by Matheus Bertelli Diversity is a strength that enriches our society and enables us to learn from one another's unique perspectives and experiences. Embracing diversity involves recognizing the value of diverse cultures, backgrounds, and beliefs and celebrating the differences that make us unique. Through embracing diversity, we create a more inclusive and tolerant society where everyone is accepted and respected for who they are.   You may read Anthony Candela's dystopian novel Vision Dreams, A Parable . It is a compelling narrative that explores a society that prioritizes the welfare and humanity of its citizens above everything else. It prompts readers to reconsider their understanding of living in a community prioritizing their daily joy and respect.   Achieving humanity is a continuous journey that requires conscious effort and commitment to kindness, empathy, and compassion. By nurturing these characteristics in daily interactions, advocating for equality and justice, and embracing diversity, we can establish a more empathetic and nurturing society for all individuals. Together, we can take the necessary steps to achieve humanity and make the world a better place for all.     If you are interested in the concept of humanity, check out the book Vision Dreams, A Parable . Get your copy now!

Image by freepik Inclusivity for people with disabilities doesn’t stop at environmental adjustments to help them gain physical access. Instead, society should take steps to ensure its citizens understand the world from multiple perspectives. Empathy is hardwired in people. Almost everyone has a natural predisposition to empathize, except sometimes it seems with those who are physically different. Imagining life in their shoes may cause cognitive dissonance or imbalance, given that people’s perception of the world is already heavily molded by their experiences. But if they were to try it would still be easy to understand how differently people function with their conditions. Yet, comprehension is separate from action. Regardless of how sympathetic society is, there is still space to improve when it comes to its inclusivity for people with disabilities. Perhaps the difference is between sympathy and empathy. We can usually sympathize without a lot of effort; empathy requires truly getting into the other person’s shoes. The Importance of Inclusivity for People With Disabilities Stand Up or Sit Out by Anthony Candela is written from the author’s divergent perspective of the world. As an athlete and author dealing with blindness, Anthony explores how he had to work out his routines more carefully than other people. He details the adjustments he had to make to go about his life; his condition often prompting him to veer from life’s typical course. In his memoir, readers get a glimpse of his experiences. They are shown a side of the world they’ve never experienced. While it’s important to acknowledge that life is imperfect for everyone, Anthony hopes that through his memoir, people will understand how much faultier it gets for people like him. He writes not to incite pity from others but to let them know the challenges people with disabilities go through to live in the same society as everyone else. This is the value of exposing the notion of inclusivity for people with disabilities. It’s not only about knowing how to bring them comfort but genuinely stepping into their shoes. It’s not just about ticking boxes and meeting requirements but seeing people’s value for who they are beyond their conditions. It’s About Social Inclusion Everyone wants to be included. It’s fundamental to human nature to want to belong. Inclusivity for people with disabilities ensures these individuals feel so regardless of their differences. It ensures they encounter equal opportunities to maximize every aspect of their lives. Empathy increases and so does inclusion as society recognizes that the desires of people with disabilities are the same as everyone’s. Inclusion cultivates an environment where disabilities aren’t a source of shame, nor do individuals feel ashamed of their differences. Embracing them leads to their thriving despite their disabilities. Acknowledging that disabilities shouldn’t hinder how they can contribute to the world is the greatest sign of empathy and inclusivity... Image by freepik Inclusivity for people with disabilities ensures that people belong in spite of their differences. It makes them feel a part of the whole, helping to ease the psycho-social burden that may come with their conditions. Such initiatives shouldn’t only enhance their quality of life but also their self-images, changing the world from the inside out. How Can the World Be Made More Inclusive for People With Disabilities Despite society’s positive progression and best intentions, it may still lack proper initiatives toward the best means of inclusivity for people with disabilities. Everyone understands that such inclusion means ensuring these individuals are given the same opportunities. But to what extent should they receive them? There may still be bits of confusion surrounding the intention, mishaps that would occur because of misinterpretations. Hence, in a way, regardless of intentions, there may still be inadequacy in how society includes these groups. Inclusivity for people with disabilities is beyond understanding what diversity is and how it looks in public. Instead, it’s about turning these good intentions into better and proactive behaviors. Putting on Their Shoes but Not Assuming What They Feel There’s a difference between stepping into these individuals’ shoes and assuming how they perceive the world. A thin line separates empathy from imposing one’s perception on another, and people should avoid the latter. It’s important to note that disabilities impact people differently. They represent a diverse group of individuals who may share conditions but not the same experience of life. To foster a better sense of inclusivity for people with disabilities, people should never assume what is possible or impossible for them. This prompts hindrances that may limit their potential. When people assume these details about people with disabilities, they ignore the differences and short-circuit the possibilities of what they could share with the group. What one can endure and adjust to isn’t identical across all people. With all of this in mind, to presume what people with disabilities are capable of without getting to know them is potentially offensive. It can be associated with stereotyping, which puts everyone in the crowd to similar standards, an unfair way of looking at them. Of course, it is respectful to be considerate of them, but people must stay away from thinking they know everything about the conditions and lives these individuals live. If you’re interested to read more about Anthony Candela’s life and how his condition has affected it and how he accomplished his goals, grab a copy of his book now!

Photo by Eren Li Living in a very diverse world requires us to respect people from all walks of life, regardless of their physical appearance and capabilities. Treating [blind] people with respect is an important part of being inclusive. Moreover, respectful behavior helps create a loving environment where people with visual impairments can fully live a normal life and thrive. If you read the heartfelt memoir  by Anthony Candela,] a blind person, it won’t be hard to remember that treating blind people with respect is a must. They are regular people just like us, despite their sometimes unfathomable impairment. Furthermore, it should be a basic aspect of life to treat persons with disabilities equally and to recognize their worth as human beings. They deserve to be treated with fairness in all ways. Respectful treatment forms the foundation of love and acceptance the world needs. Treating blind people with respect breaks the barriers that once held us back from living harmoniously. By respectfully interacting with blind people, we understand their point of view and encourage others to do the same. Here’s How You Can Treat Blind People with Respect: Use First-Person Language When talking to a blind person, it’s best to refer to them as “people who are blind” or “individuals with visual impairments” rather than defining them solely by their disability. We should be aware of how we address them because that can be a first impression lasting for a long time. It’s always a good idea to follow the lead of the blind person you’re talking to. If they introduce themselves using a specific term, including their preferred pronouns, take it as a sign of how they want to be called. Respecting an individual’s choice of language empowers them to carve out their own identity. Introduce yourself by stating your name when meeting a blind person. This helps them know who they are interacting with, establishing a clear ground for communication. When approaching a blind person, always start with “Hello” or “Excuse me” in a friendly but clear manner. We also need to be patient and attentive as we talk with them. Give them time to process information and respond accordingly. Moreover, don’t forget to provide verbal cues indicating you’re still engaged in the conversation. Communicate Clearly When speaking to a blind person, use a normal tone. Avoid talking loudly or speaking to someone else in the vicinity as if the blind person is not present. When in a group setting or in a conversation involving a blind person, address them directly rather than talking through a third party. This way, they can fully participate and engage in the conversation. Remember to provide information or describe visual elements by using vocabulary that’s easy to understand. Be specific and avoid vague statements to avoid confusion. Ask Before Assisting If you believe a blind person may need assistance, always ask before jumping in. Say, “May I help you?” Treating blind people with respect includes respecting their autonomy and allowing them to accept or decline your assistance. Moreover, if a blind person requests assistance, offer your elbow for them to hold onto or ask how you can best assist them. Avoid grabbing or pulling them without their consent. Describe Your Surroundings If you're guiding a blind person, provide relevant information about the environment. Don’t overdo it, but describe obstacles, changes in terrain, or other important details that may affect their mobility. Be specific and detailed when describing the key elements of your surroundings, especially when there are potential potholes, bumps, and other risky parts of the place where you’re at. Ensure all furniture and obstacles are accounted for, primarily if they affect the blind person’s movements. If the environment changes, let them know. More importantly, if there are stairs, ramps, or uneven surfaces, inform the blind person about them. Specify the location, number of steps, or direction of incline so they can tread safely. Respect Personal Boundaries Obtaining consent and asking for permission is always the general rule when treating people with respect. Blind people rely heavily on their sense of touch and spatial awareness. Be mindful of their personal space and avoid touching them without permission. Furthermore, understand that blind people may require more time to process information because of lack of visual input, navigate their surroundings, or complete tasks. Be patient and respectful, and allow them the necessary time they need. Furthermore, blind people use tools or personal belongings to navigate their surroundings. If you need to handle their things, ask for their guidance or explain why you need to do so. Moreover, adapt accordingly when they can move around. For example, if they use a cane or a guide dog, give them space and do not interfere with their mobility aids. Treating Blind People with Respect is a Decent thing to do. All human beings should do likewise with each other. These guidelines for treating blind people with respect are general rules that apply in most situations. However, each person is unique, and preferences may vary for each blind person. If in doubt, it’s always best to politely their talents, skills, and aspirations.

Photo by Denys Nevozhai on Unsplash Is it possible that we will fall into a dystopian society? Based on our current situation, we may already be in a dystopia. Does the future of our society cross your mind at times? Do you ponder whether there even is a future? Oh, and has there ever been a time when you imagined a dystopia? What would the future look like, especially with regard to our current situation? We are already experiencing distress in some areas in our society, but the thought that it could be far worse is frightening. What Is a Dystopian Society? To begin with, the term dystopia holds a much more profound meaning. Dystopia, a term derived from the Greek language, is a concept that revolves around the idea of an imaginary society, community, or world that is the antithesis of a utopia. In Greek, ' dys' means 'bad' or 'difficult', while 'utopia' refers to an ideal or perfect world. Hence, dystopia paints a vivid picture of a world that is far from perfect, where an oppressive and dehumanizing environment leads to a bleak future. A dystopian society is a world where human rights are violated, individualism is suppressed, and human dignity is trampled upon. This results in a society that is often characterized by chaos, suffering, and despair. Does it sound familiar? The Impact of Technology Technology has advanced throughout the years and continues to pave the way in our society significantly. However, the curiosity of some people if technological advancements may impact the bridge toward a dystopian society is springing up. Whether technology destroys or flattens the bridge toward dystopia is ultimately up to how society utilizes it for the good or the bad. The future is unknown and sounds daunting, but there is always a chance to alter it through our decisions and actions in the present. If we continue to ignore our current situations and let chaos prevail, then dystopia is the endgame for all of us; however, if we do go against it and start journeying in pursuit of peace, perhaps we can prevent dystopia and even succeed in utopia. Technology has a significant impact on our society, and we are highly clinging to it. Simply, nowadays, humanity is dependent on technology. We are unaware of the impact and significance it holds in shaping the future of our society. Are We Currently Living in a Dystopian Society? From the looks of it, it appears to be that we are currently living in a dystopia. But the thing is, if you think this is as bad as it gets, then I'm afraid you might be wrong. Dystopia is far worse than you expect and goes beyond the crisis and distress we face today. It circles frightening injustices, dehumanization, inequality, dangerous levels of waste, inhumane crimes, and any awful human destruction and transgression. In the present, we are not living in dystopia, but we are experiencing human problems and facing societal issues that may worsen if we let the unjustness prevail. Today may not be what we imagined as the future, but the future is now our present reality. Dystopian Novels: An Early Warning System Dystopian fiction, including a dystopian novel about technology, is crucial in enlightening and cautioning individuals about the potential dangers of existing social and political systems. This opens a new door to a dystopian novel about technology that delves into how far people are willing to go when they are frightened, especially in a world where science and technology have the potential to enable extreme actions. Anthony Candela's dystopian novel about technology, Vision Dreams, A Parable, provides a thought-provoking perspective on the nature of a society that values the well-being and humanity of its people above all else. It challenges our perceptions of what it truly means to live in a society that supports our daily happiness and dignity. Are We Ready for the Future? Now that we have gone over some points concerning dystopia, are we prepared for it to happen? Because dystopia is possible if we continue to lean on the wrong. The future of dystopia is also obscure, so we still have a chance to improve our future. It starts with you. If you find dystopian concepts interesting, we highly recommend reading the book Vision Dreams, A Parable. Grab your own copy now and click here.

Photo by Izzy Park on Unsplash Loving your true self will be challenging in a society that values image, superficiality, and bravado. Still, it will often lead to greater rewards. What does it mean to be just a “regular guy”? Is it someone who doesn’t fit in the mold of societal expectations? Or is it a person who chooses to live authentically and still loves their flaws? Anyone can work towards living life as just a regular guy; however, self-acceptance is not limited to a few people only. As a regular guy, how will you embrace who you are, flaws and all, and find contentment in a world that imposes a narrow definition of success? Defying Social Expectations as A “Regular Guy”’ Expectations from other people are often the ones that weigh us down. It could be from our family, friends, peers, coworkers, etc. Even strangers now have a say on how we should live our lives, especially now that we’re all out in the open in this digital age. To tread the first step towards loving yourself, challenging these expectations is a great way to start the sprint. Moreover, it’s time to redefine our own success and how we want to feel about it once we reach that peak. Remember, the only one who can determine success and fulfillment is ourselves; no one can dictate or take that away. Another essential thing to note is that there is no universal standard of what it means to be successful or happy. Being a regular guy means taking control of your own life, embracing your uniqueness, and believing that your worth is not determined by what society made it out to be. Authenticity Over Image – Which Is Which? It’s not wrong to keep up appearances when we’re in front of other people. After all, it’s all about first impressions, ultimately affecting how we’re treated wherever we go. However, placing importance on authenticity over image can be difficult, especially with how the digital world is obsessed with image. Those not gifted in that aspect might be left out or unknowingly omitted because they don’t fit in with the rest. But true self-acceptance is rooted in being comfortable in your skin and not being afraid to show genuine interest in anything. Moreover, authenticity should not be confused with outright rudeness or unwarranted blunt behavior. When being our true selves, we must still approach others tactfully. After all, we’re regular guys trying to get through a typical day. It won’t hurt to be kind to each other and not lie to ourselves. Staying Humble and On the Ground Life will always humble us, and it’s up to us however we react. Humility plays a significant role in loving our true selves, hopefully picking up that trait. We can’t always be above our own heads, and we forget how to understand and empathize with others. Moreover, being open to growth and self-improvement are vital things that make a person humble. Not to mention that how we receive feedback or criticism tells much more about who we are and our humility. Self-awareness might also play a part, but in the end, the willingness to grow and learn from those flaws is much more than what we choose to show. Moreover, we need to be more open to vulnerability and not be seen as a weakness because it never was. We can harness this trait as a strength to remain humble when life doesn’t go our way. And regular as we are, it’s a superpower we can be proud of. We can stay soft in a world that pressures us to go hard. Embracing Who You Are, Flaws and All While this may be a regular guy’s guide to loving ourselves and embracing our flaws, doing so takes more than practice. It’s a matter of trying every day, down to the most minor things like how we look at ourselves in the mirror, how we choose to start our mornings, and any unexpected situation that may strike. Rather than perpetuating or entertaining the thought of not being enough, being kinder to ourselves is more than enough. Embracing who you are takes a lot of accepting the hideous parts of yourself unconditionally. If we ever feel like we can’t live up to our expectations. In that case, we need to remind ourselves to let go of the desire to conform to everyone else at the expense of becoming someone we’re not proud of. Moreover, we can’t give what we don’t have, so treating ourselves with kindness, understanding, and forgiveness will help us connect with others better. We can even learn more about them in the book “Stand Up or Sit Out” by Anthony R. Candela. As regular guys, we can never keep up with society’s fast-paced standards and the unrealistic means to achieve them. However, embracing our flaws and being comfortable in our own skin will eventually allow us to love ourselves without inhibitions.